Hello 2014: Seeing the Year in – the Kinky Way

Having finally recovered and got my bearings two days later, I thought I’d write about how we celebrated new year’s eve. 

I wrote a post back in November about our previous (and first) kinky house party. It was a great success and we heard such lovely things off people afterwards that we decided pretty much right away we’d do it again – and NYE seemed like a logical next date. 

for the party to be busy without overcrowding, there ended up being about 20 or so fetishists gathered, and in many ways the party was like any other – people drank, nibbled and chatted to a background of mostly music, with a little interlude for Big Ben to do it’s chimey thing at the big moment. 

However, there was also the flogging (of many arses), the violet wand (which I sort of wanted to try but felt too nervous to), and various other reasonably standard fetish party staples (not actual stapling mind, though there was some needleplay by a couple of our guests). 

As a couple, we did a bit of flogging after I was cheeky (and yes, we’re still maintaining we’re not D/s!), he spanked me with Vampire Gloves (mmm, blood!) and we did a little wax play in the lead up to midnight too. What was less average though, was the fucking machine one of our guests had built and which they brought along! 

A couple of people had a go – one publicly and one privately – though I have to admit I sadly wasn’t one of them. In some ways I wish I had but there’ll be other opportunities I’m sure. In a way this leads me to what I want out of the coming year – more new experiences. 

Ultimately, the only thing preventing that most of the time is me holding back – something I want to change. So, let 2014 be the year in which I dive right in!